How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What do you think of a parent telling their adult child to “keep their personal life to themselves” in relation to talking to them? No reason they should say that it was mean what should I do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why am I peeing so much without drinking a lot of water? I checked my blood sugar and it is normal. Could it be something else?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why does my crush make me jealous about having a girlfriend?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do the Republican city officials at Springfield Ohio continue to deny that immigrants are eating pets to sabotage the Trump campaign, even though immigrant pet-eating is now widely believed to be true?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Have you been with a stranger yet?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How do we greet in German, French, Spanish, and Italian?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What do you do to make yourself sleep early?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

What does Jesus mean in Revelation 3:3 when He states, "Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die, for I have found your deeds unfinished in the sight of my God?"

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.